Not only can the state of the penis be used to determine whether a partner is ready for intimate contact. An erection is not always visible, but it is often important for women to understand what they like. It is easy to understand that a person is easily awakened by other signs that are not usually so direct.
Nonverbal signal
Regardless of whether he wants to, a man expresses his interest in objects of the opposite sex through the external manifestations of behavior and physical reactions. Non-verbal information from your partner will help you understand his condition and preparation for sexual intercourse. Usually, the repeated actions illustrate his wishes. This "mirror" is a clear symptom of the enthusiasm and desire to build closer relationships.
When communicating, a man caught by passion will try to get closer and get closer to the object of desire. This action is automatically carried out unknowingly. In addition, he will try to touch a woman with his hands or feet to make physical contact, but this does not mean that an excited partner will develop aggression without observing the rules of etiquette.
This contact will be more casual, relaxed, and not fascinating, but the excitement experienced by men in this contact is obvious. Women understand that this behavior is not accidental, and see the persistence and certain tension of human behavior.
It is also important to record the external manifestations of a person's behavior. When he was excited, he tried to stretch his shoulders and tuck his abdomen, showing his figure in a favorable light. Usually, due to excitement, the partner starts to lick his lips and grab his chin, nose or ears with his fingers, which is also a typical practice for women.
The signs of a person being awakened, expressed in a nonverbal way, can be reduced to a small part of his behavior:
- An excited man tries to please a woman-move a chair, open a door, help with things or services;
- He strives to shorten the communication distance;
- During the conversation, a man tried to make light physical contact;
- A man is passionate about a woman, he will try to be alone with her as much as possible.
A man's pose
The need to express sexual attraction in an implicit way was born in an era of strict rules and regulations, when moral codes and church standards forbid attitudes to the process of intimacy. Both men and women need to show their partners that they are willing to take action without worrying about propaganda and public condemnation. It is in this situation that nonverbal signals make it possible to understand preferences and desires.
From the perspective of a normal man, it is wrong to want a woman without showing her. Therefore, the potential partner unconsciously or unconsciously tries to show his interest to the desire object through sexual gestures and postures.
Men show most gestures and postures on the reflex level without being aware of their sexual orientation towards women. Some of them clearly show interest, while others are more hidden, and only girls who are ready to contact can read.
When a man sees an attractive woman, he involuntarily begins to emit "Alpha Male". He expressed that he was ready to have sexual intercourse in a confident posture and showed a high profile about his physical condition. This usually manifests itself as the following:
- Men straighten their backs and shoulders;
- Try to attract the stomach deeper;
- If a person stands, his legs are shoulder-width apart, showing a particularly stable and strong posture;
- It is also important to track the position of the socks on a man’s shoes. If he is interested in any attractive person, then they will be directed to this woman;
- If a person is sitting on a chair, he will involuntarily spread his legs, so that he is showing his genitals and preparing to mate.
The involuntary postures and gestures of men who want to possess the women they like are often similar to the behavior of male monkeys in rutting and mating games, indicating the common roots of primates and humans.
The excited man began to arrange his clothes and hair, hoping to attract women's attention with his appearance. His gait is not sharp and cumbersome, but moves quickly like an athlete, while correcting body defects, straightening and removing the abdomen. A hint of radiance appeared in the eyes, the skin on the face tightened automatically, and the bags under the eyes disappeared on their own. Generally speaking, passion makes a person younger and more suitable for friends.
This posture is rarely used now, and many people have forgotten it, but even fifty years ago, putting the thumb behind the belt meant a rude and ostentatious behavior towards women, aimed at showing off their genitals.
The delay of the man's gaze on the object of his desire tells a lot. When he looks at a woman's eyes for a little longer than the decent rule stipulates, it shows that he is excited and willing to make closer contact.
The position of the hands on the hips shows the female the physical superiority of the male relative to other opponents, his strength and strength, so he is ready to give birth.
What's interesting is that women are more sensitive to the performance of men's attention, and soon notice all the tricks of possible partners, while men may not understand the sympathy shown by girls for him for a long time.
Physical performance
Men's sexual arousal state is not only manifested as penile erection, but also manifested by other physiological signs that are usually not so obvious.
A man, controlled by passion, often straightens the details of his clothes and loosens the tie knot, which actually starts to strangle him. Breathing becomes rhythmic, the tone of voice may become lower, vision becomes blurred, pulse rate increases, and blood pressure rises. The behavioral characteristics of this period are difficult to hide from outside attention, especially for the objects of desire-women will immediately and consciously capture these signs.
Men are not only aroused by women’s direct manifestations of sexual desire, but also by compulsive thoughts about intimacy. The upcoming wave of passion attracts the partner, and his behavior will change according to his temperament and hormone levels. The general signs of erotic stress are the physiological indicators listed above, which are similar to a stressful state in terms of symptoms. In addition to faster breathing and heartbeat, voice and pressure also change, muscle tone increases, pupils dilate, and saliva production increases.
During the erection process, a clear liquid is released from the penis, which contains no sperm, but it is a lubricant that allows you to enter a woman’s vagina effortlessly. It rises along the wall of the urethra and remains on the head of the penis in the form of water droplets.
The oil comes from Cooper's gland and contains various enzymes. This clear liquid has several functions:
- It removes urine residue in the urethra;
- The alkaline component of the lubricant neutralizes the acidic environment of the female vagina;
- The viscosity of the lubricant allows you to prepare your urethra to release semen;
- Lubricant allows you to rub during intercourse without harming the delicate skin.
The amount of lubricant depends on the individual characteristics of the man’s body and can range from a small drop to 5 ml. The main purpose of excretion of this liquid is to provide a favorable environment for conception. Neutralizing the acidic atmosphere of the vagina is necessary to improve the survival rate of active sperm.
The main sign of male sexual arousal is penile erection. As the blood supply to the penis increases, the cavernous body is filled with plasma, and the size of the organ increases significantly in length and width.
The size of the penis during erection depends on the individual characteristics of the male body, but it has been noted that the small penis enlarges more significantly than the more impressive organs.
The erect penis becomes hard and elastic, so as to ensure that it is inserted into the woman's vagina. At this time, the man is completely ready for sexual intercourse, and the passion is more burning.
When inserted into a woman’s arms, the man’s body is more involved in the process of sexual intercourse. Heart rate increases, muscle tension reaches its limit, pressure rises even higher
It is almost impossible to suppress passion.
The orgasm of men's intercourse is ejaculation, and then orgasm. The pleasure lasts for 5-10 seconds. This is due to the contraction of the smooth muscles of the prostate while pushing the semen of the urethra filled with millions of sperm.
During orgasm, men may make sudden noises and groans. The amount of semen depends on the person's physique and abstinence time.